You complain about how no one helps you. Yeah, okay, keep saying that. People try to help you, but no one is going to help you unless you want to be helped and if you reach for the hands they stretch out to you. Thank God there are those people who don’t stop trying. Those few good people in the world. But to those other guys, it looks like you enjoy drowning. Yeah, it’s tough and ugly to say it like that, but it does. Do you enjoy pain? Do you simply imagine that people are going to pay attention to how great a shot of you crying on the bathroom floor would look in a Korean drama? Or do you want some help? You do? Then reach your hand out.